The Moral Dilemmas Of Pastors


Not money.

Not sex.

Not fame.

But what to say and how much to say and how directly (or not) to say it. That’s their moral struggle.

It’s obvious our culture is at war with itself right about now. Pick an issue, any issue, and you’ll find people groups who believe their perspectives surely must be right. Even more, many of them believe their perspectives are gospel, THE spiritually fitting way to understand said issue. This means that all other perspectives must be not only wrong or misguided, but are spiritually unfaithful, or perhaps even destructive. In this kind of atmosphere people see the way forward in terms of binary categories…winners and losers, faithful and unfaithful, spiritually correct and incorrect.

This is the culture in which pastors are preaching and teaching. Then along comes an incident, well two incidents, like happened this weekend. More mass shootings. How many times have we prayed for victims? Aren’t we tired of praying without doing? Yet pastors know that speaking a prophetic word related to these shootings, calling people to action, will offend someone(s) in their churches. Racism, gun control, sin, immigration, political policy….each of these is a live dynamic contributing to the particular shooting in El Paso. Pastors know they will offend more than one group in the church when they say nearly anything about this particular shooting.

To complicate things, a quick read through my social media platforms this morning makes it clear that plenty of social media influencers KNOW what pastors “should” say. They communicate, either directly or by inference, what every spiritually responsible pastor would preach after this incident.

I’m not so sure. Yes, I believe the brokenness of humanity is on full display in these mass shootings. Yes, I believe many dynamics contribute toward shaping a culture wherein this kind of tragedy repeatedly happens. Yes, I believe pastors need to address the issues of our day. And, I also know what it’s like to be employed by a church who can terminate one’s employment at the drop of a hat. Though some denominations include safeguards and safety nets, pastors know they will sow the seeds of their demise with just the wrong word or statement. Feeding their families, paying a mortgage, providing for their children….these are real life considerations factoring into sermons. There are people in churches who will quickly move toward terminating their pastor when he/she contradicts their perspectives on how the world does or should operate. This is the reality of pastoral leadership.

So, the moral dilemmas of pastors are less often about money, sex, or fame. More often, week in and week out, pastors live in the tension between their consciences, the still small guiding voice, and the political realities in their congregations. Is it better to soften one’s prophetic voice and remain in place to continue the growth process with this congregation? Is it better to go all in, letting the pieces shake out as they may? What’s God’s guidance here, based on who God is as revealed through Jesus Christ? When your words don’t influence your family’s financial security, it’s easy to have opinions on what others should do.

Here’s my hope for pastors in this crazy age of cultural division. I hope there will be times when pastors don’t speak about the hot issue of the day, instead pointing to the enduring foundations of our faith, comforting God’s people with the awareness that we are part of the ongoing story of God. I also hope there are more than one occasion when a pastor risks it all, knowing he or she could not sleep well without having called out injustice, even when it angers the powers that be in the church. Which to do when? That’s the challenge of preaching in 2019; the ongoing moral dilemmas of pastors.


10 thoughts on “The Moral Dilemmas Of Pastors

  1. Paul A Wood August 5, 2019 / 1:57-04:00Aug

    Oh yes, Mark. You know the tight-rope which conscientious pastors walk every day. How to keep one’s integrity and self-worth while also keeping the goodwill of people who put their butts in the seats and checks in the offering plates. So I join in with Ringo Starr and George Harrison: “It don’t come easy.”

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  2. Marion Arbuckle August 6, 2019 / 1:57-04:00Aug

    Mark, well said! Our current cultural conditions can quickly overwhelm the gospel message, stealing hope and joy. Praying for my pastor as he faithfully proclaims truth to us.

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  3. The Rev. Deborah Apoldo August 7, 2019 / 1:57-04:00Aug

    Great counsel Paul. I pray to be led by the Holy Spirit on such matters. I’m never quite sure how the Holy Spirit will direct me in the midst of any given situation as it arises, but one thing I do seem to have clarity about is that if we preach the good news of the redemption of all thing in Jesus, there is always a foundation of hope. It is what it is, but it isn’t what it should be. How can we be Kingdom bringers wherever we are? A Spirit led imagination is a powerful thing.

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  4. Ronald D. Vaughan August 13, 2019 / 1:57-04:00Aug

    I recently posted a statement on FB about the connection between hateful speech and violence. The responses I received from FB friends made me wonder if I posted a Rorschach ink blot and asked people to tell me what they saw. I actually needed to remove a few comments that were partisan political defenses of the writer’s position. I think the challenge for proclaimers is to talk about the truth before the moment of crisis arrives. Then, the message we share will not be run through such an emotional filter and reshaped into what our hearers may believe is an attack.

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  5. Mark Tidsworth August 13, 2019 / 1:57-04:00Aug

    Thanks Dee for sharing your experience. Been there too my brother. The emotionality and reactionary responses make it difficult to have conversations. Stay at it man, modeling respectful conversation as you do. The gospel has political ramifications, but it’s never partisan…not owned by any political party. The gospel is always bigger and better than any political party. Thanks for who you are and what you do.


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